Christians having sex before marriage

Apprently sex before marriage is okay now.  Obviously I missed the memo. I wish I had gotten it, so I could’ve been included in the fun.  I wish I had gotten the word, so I could have had MORE SEX!!! It would have saved me many nights crying out to God, asking for forgiveness, the days of shame, and so much more.  If I had only known that Christians are cool with having sex before marriage now.  But guess what… sex before marriage is STILL A SIN!!!